“I will share your joy and sorrow / Till we’ve seen this journey through.”

Peter is comfortable.   He has not had a seizure since last Wednesday, although he was agitated and indicating his head ached on Saturday, so he is now heavily sedated. He is being lovingly cared for by Nurse Kightley, who was imported from the UK for that very purpose, and a crew of very capable and caring nurses from hospice.

Yesterday he ate some puréed mango and told me it was a $685 papaya.  I told him it was a free mango but he repeated that it was a $685 papaya. I am trying to decipher that – it’s got to be some sort of code.

The kids are tender and tough and sad and strong. My heart aches that they are losing the dad they love so deeply. My heart swells with pride that they are bravely and lovingly by his side as his body slowly shuts down.

Eli and his friend Blake visiting Peter today.
Noel, Carol, and Emily. Emily and Peter have a special bond. She’s been visiting him weekly for some time. She also helps me curate my tiny free library, which her grampy Noel built for me.
Prince Shaggy spends most days and nights standing (ok, sometimes sleeping) by Peter’s side and supervising his care and visitors. His devotion is remarkable. We’ve only had Shag since September, but he bonded to Peter from day 1. He is noble and vigilant.
Peter’s friend Raul has been reading to him about the wisdom of Buddha.
The view from Peter’s window. When it rains we open the window so he can listen. It’s summer in Miami. We’ve had a few great thunderstorms in the past few days. One of Peter’s nurses spotted a crocodile right there a few days ago.

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